Naughty wife talks: How not to be a virgin

Getting married as a virgin is what one should do for herself or himself, based on personal conviction. Especially if doing it because the word of God condemns fornication in its entire ramification.

Because deciding to keep your virginity just to impress the man or woman you are going to marry is like gambling. It is like taking your hard-earned money to the casino and blowing it there, hoping for a huge pay-off. At the end you might be hugely disappointed, get so little for what you put in, or hit the jackpot.

If you married an animal as a virgin, your lack of experience will not cure his animalistic behaviour. He will still be an animal, only that he is going to be the animal that took your virginity.

I am tired of wives lamenting (husbands hardly lament publicly) of going to their husbands as virgins and being maltreated at the end. Were you hoping that your virginity would cure his womanising tendencies?

It doesn’t work like that.

A man who married a woman because she is a virgin would likely move on to other virgins after he had taken the wife’s cherry. Living in the north where polygamy is widely accepted had taught me that fact. There are men who marry virgins, divorce them the next day and marry other virgins.

That bearded former Zamfara State governor has been marrying virgins as long as I can remember and there is still always room for more in his harem.

There are men who boast from their mistress’s bed how they married their wives as virgins.

What of when a man is so foolish to think that the only way to ensure his wife’s vagina is attuned only to his dick is to marry her as a virgin? Well, I have seen such men woefully disappointed. Because, if the woman doesn’t have a church-mind and decides to taste the neighbour’s prick just to compare and contrast with her husband’s own, there is going to be trouble, especially if she developed a taste bud for X-rated materials. She might suddenly discover that her hubby’s wand is not really the epitome of top zubras.

When I was a child, I remember a man that once married a young girl and was boasting to everybody how virtuous she was and how wise he was to make such plucking from the tree of good girls. She was a good girl o, but then she usually went for spiritual consultation with a lecherous alfa that lived in the same compound with us. To cut the long story short, while her husband was at work, she visited the alfa and he fucked her all afternoon, every bloody day.

We didn’t tell the husband. It wasn’t in our place to do so. Besides, it was better for him to continue deluding himself, after all his wife’s cunt had no meter. At the end, the marriage was preserved!

That is why I am not really moved by Emeka Ike’s wife’s public declaration that she never made love with a man until she met her wife-beating husband. The actor likely did not remember her unused canal when he married her anytime he was panel-beating her. If she had done it for herself, she won’t be in the news lamenting her presumably misused virginity.

I know girls who are still virgins in their 20s and I am glad that they are not doing it to impress man but God and for themselves. They will definitely reap the reward a 100 fold. I want my daughters to grow up with such mind-set.

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