4 body language signs to know if he/she digs you

Do you like that person, or you think he/she is into you, but just not sure. How do you determine if someone is attracted or so into you. Here are four ways to find out.

1. Which way does he or she look?
When a person makes eye contact with you, how they look away says everything about what they think and feel about you – even if they aren’t consciously aware of it themselves.
For those attracted to females, next time you see a beautiful woman, make eye contact with her, and hold the gaze until she looks away. Watch where she looks and use that information to determine whether you should approach or not.

2. What geometry do they use?
When someone finds you attractive, watch their shoulders and feet. Perhaps they’re across the room from you, or maybe they’re sitting right next to you. When their shoulders and/or feet point towards you, they’re interested. Now, there might be other people in the way, or it isn’t clear if it’s you or someone else near you – and so that’s when you start moving around to see if their body language compensates accordingly.

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3. Do they fiddle?
Watch how the person you’re interested in moves and touches themselves, or other objects around them when you’re conversing. Fiddling, stroking, and caressing are all signs that they’re very much interested, and if you really watch closely, you might even see them doing something truly surprising to show you just how attracted they really are.

4. How big are the pupils?
In the body language world, the size of a man’s (or woman’s for that matter) pupils really do matter. A small, pinprick-like eye means either it’s really bright out, or they’re just not that into you. A large, almost oversized pupil means it’s either really low lighting (why candlelight is so romantic!), or their body can’t help but to take all of you in – their pupils must dilate!

This is also what happens when you “see the person from across the room” and everything stops, or there’s a spotlight on them – your pupils get so big that all you can see is that other person.‎

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