Simple romantic ideas for every man

Many men have a flair for romantic ideas, sweet gestures, and spontaneity at the drop of a hat, so it’s not impossible to become a “romantic dude,” so to speak. Even the most masculine of “macho” men has the ability to plan a romantic dinner, bring home flowers for no reason or simply find the time in a hectic day to express admiration for his woman.‎

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For those who can’t, here are some simple romantic ideas that will help you impress your lady without having to go too far out of your way to do so. Prepare to dazzle her:

Make a list: Make a list of the special days on the calendar that you celebrate together. On these days make a point to spend some quality time together. Cook a special meal (or pick one up on the way home from work). Buy her a card or write her a short letter, and let her know that you didn’t forget.

Toast to her: Toast each other when you sit down to dinner. It doesn’t need to be over bubbly or wine, but even a glass of water or iced tea. Tell her something you love about her and then drink to it!

Reach out and touch her: Use the power of touch to make a lasting impression throughout the day. There is no such thing as not having time for a kiss goodbye in the morning, or again upon reuniting at the end of the day. And an inviting warm hug or backrub at the end of a stressful day is always appreciated.

Create a photo album: Take pictures often; don’t save the camera for holidays and special occasions. Create a visual scrapbook of your everyday life together. Better still, set the timer and pose together. You will both appreciate the warmth of the moment when you see these snapshots in an album down the road.

Take note of significant things: Set something aside for her every day. It might be a newspaper article you read during your commute, a link to a website you came across, or even a story you heard by the office water cooler. She will appreciate that you took a moment to think of her during the course of your day.

Be thoughtful: Do something thoughtful for her every day. Whether it’s making her a cup of coffee in the morning, sticking a surprise note in her bag, or leaving her a chocolate “kiss” on her pillow before bedtime, everyone loves a romantic surprise.

Keep up your appearance: Let her see you at your best. It’s ironic that we dress up to meet total strangers but let ourselves go around our nearest and dearest. Most women love to see their men clean-shaven, in great clothes and perhaps wearing a hint of her favorite cologne.

Tell her about your moods: Be honest if you are feeling stressed or under the weather. Your woman will appreciate your honesty and will know not to take it personally when you come home in a bad mood.

Discuss your day: Sit down together when you get home and relate your daily experiences. The best thing about spending time apart is that it makes you appreciate each other more.

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