Ladies, here are 7 things your boyfriend really wants from you

Do you know what your boyfriend really wants from you? Apart from the obvious answers that is…Well guys are notoriously bad at letting their girls know what they really want, so here are seven pointers for you that don’t come from the pages of the Kama Sutra!

1. Don’t cage him in: This can be a difficult balance to strike, but a man likes to know he has, or he likes to think he has, his freedom, so don’t try to tie him down too much. The problem is that if you give him too much freedom, then he’ll think you don’t care! So, keep your balance.

2. Listen to his problems: Another valuable relationship advice for women: listen to what he has to say. Men do not confide easily, so when he does, be sure to listen. He may not heed your advice, but at least he knows he has someone he can talk to.

3. Be spontaneous: Do something unexpected to show him that you love him. It doesn’t need to be very grand or expensive, just a little note or a gift will make a much bigger impression on him, than you might expect.

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4. Share some of interests: He doesn’t have to share his interests only with his buddies. Why not surprise him with two tickets to the next big game and you go with him instead. You don’t have to become a football fanatic yourself, but once won’t hurt, and actually, you might like it…just try…

5. Take some time and just chill: Forgetting to make time to just talk is a mistake that many couples make, so make a date to out together, just the two of you, somewhere where you can just sit and talk. He’ll really appreciate it. Remember, communication is the key to a happy and healthy relationship!

6. Show your love with a kiss: Another great relationship advice for women – express your love, but don’t overdo it. Remember that a gentle and unexpected kiss is one of the sweetest ways that you can show your love to your man. Just a little peck on the cheek or mouth followed by a smile will set him up nicely for the day.

7. Take care of him: Let him know that you care and that you are there for him when he needs you. Men are full of testosterone fuelled manliness until they feel ill or down. Then, all they want is a bit of sympathy and love in the privacy of their home from someone they love.

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