7 signs you are spending time with the wrong guy

We’ve all been in a relationship where we’re just not sure if it’s going anywhere. We look at our friends and their relationships, and think we’re surely doing something wrong.

Why aren’t we as happy as them? Why do we feel unsure about our relationship?

If you are having such problems the listed below are seven signs that show you are spending time with the wrong guy.

He Just Doesn’t Listen To You: So you spent all yesterday reminding him that you were going to out all day today and that he would need to cook a meal for when you and your mom return home from shopping. Naturally, you return home absolutely starving and ready to eat a delightful meal. Only, he forgot to listen and has been out watching football with the guys.

He Drinks Too Much: Going out and drinking with your boyfriend on a Friday night is a giggle. You get a bit tipsy, have a few stolen kisses in the corner of a bar, and go home and get a little bit naughty underneath the sheets. The morning comes and all you want to do is laze around the house all day in the arms of your lover, nursing your hangover.

Read also: 6 tips on how to become irresistible to your man

He Makes You Feel Bad About Yourself: Your man is supposed to be the one sole person who makes you feel good about yourself. When it feels as thought the world is tumbling down around you, your boyfriend is the one person who is supposed to cheer you up.
If instead he constantly puts you down and damages your self-esteem, you need to take this as a sign that he probably isn’t worth your time.

He’s A Poor Communicator: You want to have a rational discussion about your problems, but the minute you say anything he just flips; he goes up the wall and starts shouting and screaming. Basically, he’s emotionally immature and cannot commute like a grown-up. If this is him, your relationship is eventually going to beak down for good.

He Undermines Your Dreams: We all need dreams. Dreams give us hope and make us believe in a better future. Without dreams, what would be the point in even trying? What would be the point in even living?
If your man is the type who pours cold water on your dreams and tells you to stay grounded because life is not going to get any better, alarm bells should be ringing in your head.

He Loves Complimenting Other Women: Yes, you know the waitress is hot and the barista is every guys type. But does your boyfriend have to keep telling you this stuff? No, he doesn’t.

He Still Hangs Out With His Ex: It’s totally okay to to remain on speaking terms with his ex. After all, the last thing the world needs is more animosity, bitterness and bad blood.
But if you find out that your boyfriend is still hanging out with your ex behind your back, the chances are that you’re probably wasting your valuable time on him.

 

 

 

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